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The person who cuts your hair…what are they called? I did a mini-poll here on MY Journey and these were the results. Hairdresser – 4, Stylist – 1, Hairdresser or Stylist – 1

So here’s the story behind the poll. (Don’t quote me directly since it was 5 days ago.) Last weekend while Chelf was here, the five of us in the picture, plus Chelf’s DH, had coffee at Starbucks. Our time began outside in the sun where we lounged around a couple of metal tables in uncomfortable chairs. They just weren’t the cushy overstuffed chairs we usually sit in while inside the coffee shop. Yeah, I know what you’re thinking, spoiled American. I am. We were talking hair (poor DH) and Jan said something like, “My hair hasn’t been the same since my hairdresser died” which made me laugh, hard. The look on her face as she said it along with the rolling eyes were just funny to me. I was going to make fun of her and say, “the nerve of some people” but instead I made fun of her for saying “Hairdresser”. I told her it made her sound old – which is NOT a word that anyone would ever use to describe Jan. Everyone looked at me for a second as she asked “What do YOU call it then?” I said, “I don’t know…a stylist. I think that’s the proper word for this day and age. Hairdresser just sounds old to me. You might as well say beautician.” We all laughed and everyone started sharing what they call it, and there seemed to be a general consensus on the word hairdresser. While we were having this conversation, an elderly lady walked up with her dog and took her time tying the little thing up to a chair at a table near us. A few minutes later Chelf went inside to get something to drink and the woman stood next to her and said, “I learned something new today”. Chelf looked at her and said, “Really? What did you learn?” thinking why is this woman talking to me? The woman said, “I learned that it’s not called a hairdresser…and then I had to stick around so I could learn the proper name for it.” We entertained a total stranger! When Chelf came back out and told us all what happened, we all had a good laugh. It’s not that the woman was trying to eavesdrop, we just tend to get a bit…um…loud when we’re together. I guess it’s a good thing we stayed outside. 🙂

Lastnight I went to make an appointment at the place I get my haircut, which happens to be a barbershop around the corner from my house. Edna is my stylist. She’s 40 something and fabulous. On a side note, she’s also the one who dyed Max’s hair blue. I color my own hair thank you very much.  I forgot to ask Edna what her title is, so I looked it up on their website and found these pics. Yep. that’s where I go. Edna’s floor will be covered in long red curls tomorrow morning.  I’m so excited!

VIP’s website calls their employees Stylists and Barbers.

My aunt, who went to beauty school in the 80’s, says they are called cosmetologists.

Wikipedia says: A hairdresser is a universal term referring to someone whose occupation is to cut or style hair in order to change or maintain a person’s image. This is achieved using a combination of hair coloring, haircutting, and hair texture techniques. Cosmetologists are often known as “hairdressers”, hairstylists, hair technicians, or beauticians. In various countries the synonyms change and the usage frequency depends on the normal colloquialisms of the area. In the US, technicians and stylists usually dominate while in some countries like the UK, Australia, and New Zealand, hairdresser seems to be more commonly used. Hairdressers are often distinguished from barbers, with whom they may have a professional rivalry. Yet with a distinction that barbering has historically catered to men while traditionally a salon has been a place for women.

So what’s in a name? Evidentally not much. Use whatever term you are comfortable with, just be sure to leave a tip. 🙂

Cry Out To Jesus

From one of my very favorite bands…Third Day

My college friend Laura has begun a regular feature on her blog on Tuesdays. She posts things she’s grateful for then uses Mr. Linky to link up with other bloggers. I think her idea of encouraging an attitude of gratitude is a worthy one. I know a lot of my friends are a part of weekly posts on certain topics, like Marriage Mondays, Works for me Wednesdays, etc. I’ve never joined them because I don’t want to lose my freedom of posting whatever happens to be on my mind for the week. This is the first time I’ve read one that I felt I needed to be a part of. I see this as an opportunity to encourage and support Laura and to keep my mind on ways I am blessed. Being grateful for my life and God’s blessings should be a way of life, and sometimes I forget to acknowledge those things. A weekly reminder will be good for me. If you care to join us, visit Laura’s blog and link up.

It seems appropriate that my first gratituesday post should be about my college friends, since Laura is getting me started. In the early 90’s I went to a small Christian college in Nebraska. I had no idea how the people there would change me, shape my future, and challenge me to be a better person. It was through these people that I learned about love and loss, loyalty and humility, and how to deal with heartache in healthy and unhealthy ways. 😉 I made friends there that are still my comfort and strength today and have remained my close friends despite the years and the miles that have come between us.

Some of those people have not only watched me change and grow into who I am now, many of them were the catalyst of those changes and the “wind beneath my wings”. Blech I hate that song, but the analogy fits. The Doe Club, my friends from Student Association, my fellow drama and music lovers, and the others who shared dorm staff responsibilities are still some of my favorite people from college. I love my friends!

But I’m also really grateful for my enemies turned friends. I’m a better person than I was back then, and I’ve tried to make amends with people I hurt and forgive those who hurt me. A few have been happy to reconcile, while others have not. I can’t do much about that but pray that someday they will.

So today I am grateful for years-long college friendships and the reconciliation that can only come with the help of a loving God. He is so good!

Check out the blogs of some of my college friends:

Tawnya, Jennifer, Laura, Taj, Shalee, Deb, and Kevin.

Chelf and her DH were here in Denver over the weekend and stayed with me and my family. We had a good time getting to know each other better. Chelf and I stayed up until 4 a.m. this morning discussing life, church issues, family, and friends. We did some touristy things while they were here . We visited the Colorado State Capitol Building at 10 lastnight. The pic above is them sitting by the step that reads, “One mile above see level”. We rode the entire line of the Free Mall Ride up and down the 16th Street Mall, and this morning we toured Celestial Seasonings in Boulder. But my favorite activity of the weekend was meeting some blogging friends at Starbucks yesterday afternoon.

Paula, Niki, Heather, Jan, and Chelf

L-R is Paula, Me, Heather, Jan, and Chelf. I was happy to introduce Chelf to our blogging girlfriends she hadn’t met yet. Her DH came with us too, but we asked him to play the part of the photographer for our chick pics. We talked and laughed and shared chocolate…some of the best things in life, right Jan? 😉 We even entertained the people around us, which tends to happen when we get together. We also discussed what the proper name was for the person who does your hair – assuming you go somewhere to get your hair done. So, weigh in on the subject for me…

The person who does your hair is a:

  1. Hairdresser
  2. Beautician
  3. Stylist
  4. Barber

Leave me a comment and tell me what you think. There is technically no wrong answer, BUT your answer may date you…as in determine if you’re young & hip or an old gray hair. 🙂 lol I’m kidding.

Congratulations to…

Zoe, my official “pull a name out of a hat” girl, drew your name to win Tricia Goyer’s Generation NeXt Marriage! I’ll get the book to you asap.

I liked all the songs mentioned in the comments. Thank you to everyone who participated. All three of your comments were appreciated. 🙂 lol