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CAPTIVATING

I’ve been waiting for so long and it’s finally here! John & Stasi Eldredge’s latest book! I pre-bought my copy over a month ago, but they are offering a special price if you order it from their website before April 15th. I know it’s going to be great and I plan to buy a few extra copies for some of my favorite women. What a gift! Here’s a description for you and a link to their site:

Description: What Wild at Heart did for men, Captivating offers for women – to heal their hearts, set them free as women. This book unveils the glorious design of women before the fall, describes how a woman is wounded in her life, and how her feminine heart can be restored. It also reveals the power, freedom, and beauty of a woman released to be all she was meant to be. Every woman longs to be romanced, to play an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, and to be the Beauty in the story, to unveil beauty. That is the life God intends for her; that is the life Jesus invites a woman into as his Beloved.

click here to link to the Ransomed Heart site.

Updates:
1. The consignment sale went great! I sold 158 items out of 168 that I consigned! YEAH!
2. The fish was o.k. It wouldn’t hurt my feelings if we never had it again. The Claddaugh must have a secret recipe or something!
3. I still haven’t thought of a book – my friend didn’t ask today, but we’re having lunch tomorrow so maybe she’ll just surprise me.
4. The Farley’s (new youth minister) are here full time now. I truly hope they like Wichita and I’m sure they’ll be a great blessing to Westlink. I hope Westlink blesses them too.
5. Our family’s website is up and running now though it is not exactly the way we want it yet. Check it out at www.teamdrybones.com

Old Friend:

I had a long talk with my friend Tim lastnight. He used to be my Partner in crime at Soul Quest and Zenith. We had connections before that though. I went to college with his younger brother at York in the early nineties. Anyway, it’s been a long time since we’ve talked. The last talk we had was last fall when we asked him to pray about the possibilities surrounding our future with Dry Bones. (I feel guilty for not keeping in touch better). Before I handed off the phone to Benny, we got an interesting dialogue going about the state of the church and the world around it. You know, the same things I’ve been blogging about and reading on friend’s blogs…Are we relevant to the world today? Is there a better way to be Jesus to the masses? Are we too inward focused? Good traditions aside, are we pleasing God with our worship? How big is too big for a church? Why are we inviting people in to join us instead of going out to join them? Lots of interesting things to talk about. Tim said he’s been thinking about these things for many years, but just recently started talking with people about it. I think he said I was the 2nd one he had discussed this with. He encouraged me to get a dialogue going with our friends, and on my blog. I told him which blogs I read to be encouraged, blessed and challenged.

I asked if he’s read McLaren yet. He’s never heard of him before. There are so many out there leading the way down a new path, a road less traveled so to speak. There is a throng of people that want to make a difference in our world today and are willing to try different methods to do that, and yet there is a group that claims it’s all apostasy and those of us who are desiring the “different” are falling away from God. I know that the Bible is clear that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever – he never changes, but it is also clear that his methods did change. He taught and trained the people in OT times with different methods, signs, laws, etc. than he did with the people in NT times. Don’t you think he could be doing the same with us?

Over and over again I read in scripture that Jesus WENT to the people, with the people, and loved the people. When news spread about the miracles he was performing, people flocked to him like sheep without a shepherd. He had compassion on them and told them stories using everyday examples they would be familiar with so they might understand a little easier what he was trying to teach them. He ate with them, and stayed in their homes, even though they were despised by society. It seems to me that his methods worked, why not try it now? I know there are many who are, so don’t think I’m just griping to gripe. Sometimes I just feel like my denomination is so secluded and afraid of being like the world, so they stay in the “Christian world” that has been created, where it’s safe. Again, I know I am not the spokesperson for my denomination. I’m struggling to find my place in the bigger picture.

I’m sure I’ll post more on this later. Until then, I welcome the dialogue and the new perspectives that are out there. Any thoughts?

WILL

“The corrupting clutch of worldliness will not be shaken off easily. It is a fight to the death, for sin holds us in our own grasp. The irony of sin is that Satan’s only real hope to control my life is ME. We often labor under the misguided notion that Satan wants us to do HIS will. Satan has no will in our lives. He only wants us to do OUR will. We have met the enemy, and he is us.”
(read in an e-newsletter I accidentally deleted before saving the Title of the book or the author’s name – oops)

I read this after breakfast this morning and I’m still chewing on it. I’m trying to decide if I agree or not. Does Satan have a will in my life? Or does he want me to do my own will? What if our will truly is to do the will of God? Wouldn’t that make our will a good thing? Is the author talking about our tendencies toward our sinful nature? Isn’t it our will that decides to faithfully follow Christ? He offers the gift of Salvation and we decide whether or not to accept it? I’m reminded of the CD EXODUS that I listened to in the hospital when I had my three babies. It was very soothing to me. DC Talk has a song on that CD called “My Will”:

I’m setting the stage for the things I love
And I’m now the man I once couldn’t be
Nothing on earth could now ever move me
I now have the will and the strength a man needs

*Chorus
It’s my will, I’m not moving
Cause if it’s your will, then nothing can shake me
It’s my will to bow and praise you
I now have the will to praise my God

Complexity haunts me, for I am two men
entrenched in a battle that I’ll never win
My discipline fails me, my knowledge it fools me
But you are the shelter, all the strength that I need.

Repeat Chorus

I’m learning to give up the rights to myself
the bits and the pieces I’ve gathered as wealth
could never compare to the joy that you bring me
the peace that you show me is the strength that I need

Repeat Chorus

We’ve got to be the children of Peace

WILL is such an interesting thing…the very word means WE DECIDE. Think about it. A Last Will and Testament states what the owner of the Will decided to do with their possessions. When we say I WILL do this or that, it means we have decided to commit to that thing. WILL is amazing. Sometimes it’s a gift, sometimes a curse…it depends on what we do with it.

I mentioned the other day that I don’t know how to say goodbye. One of my friends told me after church Wednesday night that she’s not coming next Wednesday (that’s our going away party) because she’s not good at goodbyes. I hope she was kidding, but I’m not sure. Her family is having a hard time with us leaving, especially her son. My friend and her husband went through a divorce last year, and Benny is one of the few men her son trusts. She’s also on my Bunco team and everytime the subject comes up of us leaving she says she doesn’t want to talk about it. I don’t know what to do about her. My last Bunco game was last week at Danita’s 😦

Another friend asked me if someone hypothetically wanted to buy me a book, hypothetically what book would I want? 🙂 She’s funny that way. Here’s the thing…I don’t know what book I want. I can spend hours just wandering the bookstores reading titles and cover backs, dreaming about the days I’ll have time to sit and read a book for hours while sipping tea or chai, but when asked this simple question, I couldn’t think of a single book I’d like to have. She gave me until Sunday to hypothetically think about it.

Semi-annually I participate in a children’s consignment sale. I pay $8.00 to be a consignor, price my own items to sell, drop them off, then receive 70% of the selling price after the sale is over. Last fall I made over $700.00 doing this 4 day sale. Not bad huh? Ofcourse I spent about $150.00 at the sale on my own kids. I didn’t have as much stuff to sell this time, but I know I’ll still do well enough to make it worth my efforts. This is my last sale here, but my mother-in-law and I have decided that we’re going to start our own business doing a consignment sale in the Denver area. I’m volunteering 4 hours tomorrow at the sale, and I’m taking lots of notes and pictures. The two ladies that run the sale have agreed to have a Coke with me in the next two weeks so I can pick their brains about what works and what doesn’t. They’ve been really encouraging and I’m looking forward to working with them tomorrow.

We’re having fish for dinner tonight. HaHa, now you think I’ve lost it sharing such unimportant information. The thing is we don’t eat fish. I have NEVER made it for my family because I don’t like it. I did have some cod once at an Irish Pub that I liked, but that is it. We figured since we’re open to all of these other changes in our life, we might as well try some new foods while we’re at it. What goes with fish? I have no idea, so we’re having fries. The kids are happy about that. I’d prefer garlic mashed potatoes. If you happen to travel through Indianapolis, Indiana, eat at The Claddaugh Irish Pub downtown. Good fish, GREAT Guinness Irish Stew, and what an atmosphere! Eat there for lunch or just before the supper crowd to avoid the majority of the smoke. Next to the children’s museum, that’s my favorite place in Indy.

Now that you’ve read my world changing dinner menu, my hit counter numbers may drop off. Oh well. I already shared something profound today in my last post. Give me a break. 🙂

Wisdom

“The church gets into trouble whenever it thinks its in the church business rather than the kingdom business. In church business, people are concerned with church business and religious behavior. In the kingdom, people are concerned with kingdom activities – all human behavior visible and invisible. Kingdom people see human affairs as saturated with spiritual meaning and kingdom significance. Kingdom people seek first the kingdom of God and its justice. Church people often put concerns of church work above concerns of justice, mercy and truth.
Church people think about how to get people into the church. Kingdom people think about how to get the church into the world. Church people worry that the world might change the church. Kingdom people work to see that church changes the world. When Christians put the church ahead of the kingdom they settle for the status quo and their own kind of people, but when they catch a vision for the kingdom of God their sight shifts outside the walls of the church to the lost and the needy. They see the life and work of the church from the perspective of the Kingdom. If the church has one great need, it is this – to be set free for the Kingdom of God.”

(Howard Snyder, as printed from the weblog dyingchurch.com)